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When it comes to knowing your mans body are you in touch with
all his sweet spots. That is, "are you enjoying all that your man has
to give?" Or do you just stick to what you know? Well here are a few spots
that you might like to try if you have not done so already.
We will cover...
Male G-Spot,
Ears and Neck,
Nipples, Stomach,
Back,
Butt
Keep in mind that foreplay should last at lest 20 minutes to
achieve the staying power that you are seeking. Never rush take your time
and enjoy your love play with your partner.
Here are some Sweet Spots to get you started:
Ears & Neck:
Ok I have started with the ears and neck because its at the
top. It is your choice where you would like to start. For the
purpose of this article I am working from the top and working my way to the
bottom with stops every where in between.
So lets get started. Even the lightest touches will get
your partners attention. Just bringing your lips close your partners neck
or giving him a brief soft sensual kiss will start to make the hair stand up on
his neck. Moving to nibble on his ear will then start getting his engine
going. It will be like making a Tiger start to purr. Be attentive
and watch what you are starting to stir in your partner.
There is a hidden pleasure spot behind the ear, it the little place
that indents where the ear joins the neck. With a little pressure and
a rolling motion of the tongue in that spot should get him going as well.
The neck muscles of a man are super sensitive spots to sensual bites and
touches. Nibbling on your partners neck muscle that leads from the
neck to the shoulders should send shivers down his spins and make him start
to think what other parts of his body that you are going to devour. It
creates lots of passions sparks and will keep him coming back for more and
more.
You do not only have to use your lips and tongue. Be creative and get
intimate. Try ice, a silk or satin against his skin. Feel his
body respond to your touch
Nipples:
Now men's nipples have as many sensations as a
women's nipples. To keep him as attentive as you had him when you were
nibbling his ear try doing the same to his nipples. Gently start with
running your fingernails lightly around his nipples and then follow that with
your tongue. At the point when he wants more of the nibbling and kissing
keep him guessing by heading elsewhere. Keep his guessing of where you are going
to touch him or kiss him next. Return to the original spot where you
started the more he responds to your touches. All these things together
are starting to heighten his arousal and builds the intimacy between you both.
Stomach:
This is always a favorite erotic area, especially early on in your foreplay.
This is a tease, as you are frustratingly close to the Man's penis. This
tease is best used early on, as it's too frustrating to bear for long.
Back:
I am sure that your partner will be a willing partner for this one.
Ask him to roll over on to his stomach. When he does straddle him and then
start to massage his shoulders and neck as well as leaving a trail of kisses
with your soft sensual touches. This will give his passion a little bit of
a breather and prep him for what is to come.
While you are caressing his back gently move your nails lightly down his
spine, stopping just at the base of his rear end. You can also follow this
path with your tongue as will leaving a soft sensual trail with your tongue.
You will be defiantly getting him in the mood for what is to come. Feet, Ankles & Calves:
(coming soon)
Spine: (coming soon)
And for the people who are into this:
Butt:
The bottom is probably the the most softest,
most fleshiest part of the male body. And lends itself amazingly to erotic
touch. It is suggested that one of the way to pleasure your partner this
way is to use "The Wave. " For this you will need massage oil.
Now while your man is on his stomach you may want to try and sit across his
thighs, facing his head. Put some of the massage oil in the palms of your hands
and rub your hands together to warm them up. Then place the palms of your
hands on his lower buttocks and very slowing and deliberately, lean your body
weight onto your hands so that your body weight pushed yours hands up his
buttocks, all the way to the base of his spine. When you reach the
top, slide your hands down again to where you began.
This kinds of deep sensual massage on an often ignored pleasure zone of your
partner will get him warmed up for sure.
Perineum
(Male G- Spot):
This is also known as the "Male G Spot" The
perineum is the penny-sized spot between the testicles and the anus. Think
of this as an "hidden overdrive button" that will have the potential to
take his orgasm over the edge.
The perineum is said to be the "root" of the
penis and like the exterior part of the penis has an incredible amount of
sensitive nerve endings. This spot is best left to play with for the
hottest of moments, when he is just about on the edge of his orgasm.
During oral sex, after he is already very much aroused place a finger or knuckle
on his perineum, pressing firmly in a pumping motion and while doing this you
should see instant results.
After you have had
fun with all of his body parts you will see the results of your loving work
unfold before your eyes. But do not think that your work is done
because love making is not a one sided affair. Genuine interest in your
partner is a must and any falseness in your feelings or in your actions will
definitely be noticed.
Now that you have got him where you want him and if you are
anything like me this is the perfect time to engage in Oral sex.. However
if this is not your thing here are some alternatives that you can do. I
suggest that if you have a silk scarf, something soft that would feel erotic to
the touch. Second you might want to try an ice cube between your teeth and
tease your partners penis. Tease your way up and down his shaft and end up
at the head of his penis all the while you are letting some of the cold
drops of the melting ice cube slide down the shaft of his penis down to his
testicles.. You will defiantly start to see his shiver as his excitement
builds. Before long you will see his hunger for you has grown 10 fold and
he will only be wanting to be penetrating you to show you the results of your
love play.
Now that you've got him right where you want him, the goal
now is his
Staying Power
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