Well today I am going to let you into a woman's world and hopefully give you the techniques and knowledge so please your woman every night for the rest of her life.
So lets get started!
Rule
number one. Personal hygiene is a must. Make sure that your hands are
clean and that your nails are trimmed.
Lets not go there for further
discussion with that topic I am sure that you can imagine what could happen
if you are not clean, and not only can blunt fingernails cause discomfort,
they can cause infections of the yeasty kind. So remember that first
and foremost, your hands must be clean and your fingernails should be as
short and neat as possible.
Ok so now that we have gone over the serious stuff lets get on down to the fun stuff.
Most men think that you have to get crazy on her in order to drive her crazy. Well that is far from the truth. Teasing her with your fingers is a wonderful thing in itself. Use your middle finger to gently rub her clitoris. As she begins to get mildly moist down there, you may become a little more abrupt with your rubdown still remaining gentle of course. Circular motions are usually preferred by women. The sensations are more intense.
If she begins to get a little antsy and starts maneuvering around somewhat, read her body language and determine whether she's pleased or not. Do not be afraid to communicate with her. Ask her if she is enjoying herself. If she likes to have her clitoris rubbed with one finger, then imagine how much she'll love it if you use two!
When you begin with two fingers, you can become slightly more aggressive since by now she's more receptive to your fingers. Depending on your lady, you can get either more aggressive or remain gentle -- you will know by her reaction. Body language and communication is the key. Not only do you have to watch her body language but be verbal as well ask her what she likes. You will not be disappointed for asking I will bet on that.
Now I am not saying that a finger or even two are better than a penis, however the fingers are sometimes better than penises is because of their ability to maneuver more adequately. You can always hit the g-spot with your fingers whereas it's a hit-or-miss situation with your penis.
When you put your fingers inside her, don't be afraid to explore her insides. Now I'm not referring to naming all the parts inside her as you touch them, but rather get to know what she likes by her reactions. She will defiantly be becoming wet by this point, begin stroking her faster. Go in and out at a constant pace, reverting from her vagina back to her clitoris. If you can use your tongue on her clitoris in combination with inserting your fingers inside her, she'll be all the more thankful.
Whisper to her, ask her if she likes it, if you should go deeper, if you should lick, finger or rub her. Ask yes or no questions or she may lose the mood. Let her concentrate on pleasure, not teaching you the art of using fingers.
Ok so now that you have mastered your partners body with your fingers lets take it one step further. Lets get to know her G-Spot.
To a woman, there is
nothing more irritating than having sex with a man whose only concern is his
own pleasure. Now this has never been the case for me as my sweetheart
loves to pleasure me before anything else. So if he wants to be a real
man, he has to make his woman a priority. The only way to do it is to hit
her ultimate sweet spot which we all know as the g-spot. Now I
am not a doctor, but I have enough experience to know what works. So
listen up boys, because you are about to make your woman very happy.
Now I know that all you men know that women have g-spots. The part of
their bodies that inspire incredible moans and trigger over-the-top orgasms
that could wake the neighbors. Where do they come from well just to be
brief the popular name comes from Dr. Grafenberg, the man who
discovered the erogenous zone. Now the all important questions what is
it and where is it. Well it is a nickel size tissue that is located
behind the front vaginal wall. Now all women have a g-spot. Some have
experienced the pleasures it can bring when stimulated, while others don't
even know it exists. Women describe the g-spot in one word: Hallelujah! It's
a head-to-toe sensation, sending waves of pleasure throughout our bodies.
Most women find their own g-spot through masturbation. However hunting for the magic spot with your partner can bring you both closer together and be enlightening as well. The penis is not the best tracking instrument, however in time with proper technique you will find it with your penis. The instrument that you should use first, is your index finger or your middle finger. Wonder why? Well it's easier for your finger to apply firm pressure to the spot midway up her vaginal wall. It is likely that your penis will glide past it. Also, the fingertips are better able to feel through the vaginal wall for the area that swells. Once you are able to find this 'ultimate' spot, she will be yours forever. You will see the waves of pleasure that you give to her when you find this magical spot. When you have mastered finding this magical spot with your fingers you can then move on to finding it with your penis.
Now most men usually worry that they will orgasm too fast, and wish it could be the same for a woman. Well, when a man goes searching for her g-spot, it becomes a playful game and sex can become incredible. What women don't want is a 'g-whiz' orgasm. It can take a few tries before her g-spot is located, which is why some practice is needed. While your fingers are inside her rubbing her wall, use the other hand and push gently down on her stomach right above her pubic hair. This will further stimulate her, magnifying the intensity of her orgasm.
Happy hunting!
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