Anal sex in my book is still considered taboo as well as in many societies. And it is usually labeled a gay practice and widely associated with sexually transmitted diseases. However, anal eroticism is probably the oldest manifestation of human sexuality and a very misunderstood sexual practice. I had to do some research on this topic as I am not familiar with any of these practices so I hope that I can at least give you an insight as to what this is.
Here is what you should know. There are a few things to consider before engaging in anal sex with your partner. Both partners have to consent to the experience and it must be done in a smooth and delicate manner. And please use proper protection they say that it is required.
So in general most men are willing to try intercourse from behind (in her behind, relax), but they will usually have to convince their female partners into trying it. Getting your partner to try it will take some convincing because initially, the experience may be repelling as well as painful.
So how do you do it? It is recommended to build up to anal sex by trying anal stimulation prior to full penetration. For most people, the anal area is an important erogenous zone as it is believed that stimulation of that area can be very pleasurable. However, the rectum is also very delicate and must be approached with gentleness and ease.
The easiest way to stimulate the anus is by merely rubbing your partner there during intercourse or in combination while performing oral sex. Slowly massage the area with your cleansed and nail-trimmed fingers and see how your partner reacts. If she seems comfortable with the idea, then explore a little further go a little deeper. Try testing the waters to she how much she will enjoy.
May I suggest that before you start experimenting, make sure your fingers are well lubricated. Use ample saliva or sex safe lubricants. Little by little, as you go along, slowly slide your whole finger in. Make sure you do not force it, and read her body language to ensure that she is comfortable every step of the way.
Once these first steps have been followed and both partners are ready for
anal sex, heavily lubricate your penis and insert it slowly. Relaxation will be the key to enjoying this act together more. Now continuing
on. Insert the head of your penis, and slowly and rhythmically slide it in and
out. While she's relaxed, you can begin to thrust a little deeper with the same
slow and gentle rhythm, as your partner's comfort level rises. When finishing
up, do not withdraw quickly because it can result in pain. Protecting yourself during anal sex is very important. There are big
misconceptions that anal sex causes AIDS and other STDs. As a matter of fact,
if neither partner is infected with any infection or disease, there is no risk
of getting infected. However, if one of the partners is infected with some
sexually transmitted ailment, the likelihood of contracting it increases much
more via anal sex. That's because rectal tissues are more easily torn and
viruses penetrate faster than from vaginal tissues. It is also not hygienic for a penis or a finger to enter the vagina after
withdrawal from the rectum. Thereby, it is recommended to wash both your hands
and genitals before entering the vagina. And last but not least, if you are not completely sure about your partner's
sexual history, or even if you are, condoms are compulsory in every sexual
situation.
Remember that the
first times might be difficult and that you might only be able to penetrate
partially. However, once both partners become comfortable and relaxed,
penetration will become both easier and deeper. Please note that at no time
should the movement be forced because it can lead to serious injuries.
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