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Sexual Unfaithfulness-Infidelity

When have you ever been in a relationship where it did not take a reasonable amount of time to build trust with your partner, a trusting and faithful relationship takes a long time to establish, however  it can take only a few moments to destroy.

In some cases sexual unfaithfulness is "accidental" rather than a planned event.  In my opinion it is preventable.  It is very tough for me to begin to write this article as I believe that relationships should be monogamous and that being 100% open and honest with your partner can prevent any of this.  Unfaithfulness can only happen if you are not honest with yourself first and foremost as well as being truly honest to your partner.  When you love the person you are with then being unfaithful is not ever an option.  It only becomes an option when you let chaos and destruction into your life.  Chaos and destruction  usually comes from unclosed doors in your past.  This is an issue that I do cover in another article called " Closing our Doors", and that if this is something that you think that you have in your relationship then please read my other article.

I will try however to try and get through this topic as best as I can.

In relationships it is common for moments of infidelity to be isolated events, in which the "cheater" has no real emotional attachment to the third person involved.  The unfaithfulness may be triggered by one person's boredom with the current relationship, desire to be assured they are still sexually attractive, or unhappiness with their partner.

    However, sexual unfaithfulness is not the only type of infidelity that leads to tremendous jealousy: Emotional jealousy is just as prevalent, and just as damaging.  If people suspect their partner is emotionally involved with another person, they can feel a strong sense of jealousy.  In the man's case, he often feels that his "territory" is being violated and questions his manliness and ability to keep his girl friend or spouse.  A woman who is vulnerable to the threat of an emotional infidelity finds herself questioning her worth as a woman, girlfriend or wife and wonders what the other woman has that she doesn't.

 

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