Sensual Massage
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There is not a person alive that I do know who does not like to be touched. Especially when it comes to being touched in a way that is going to be sensual and erotic. And even though we all like to receive massages they are ten times more enjoyable when it is being done by our partner. Massages can be done for various reasons. They can be used for a end of the day stress reliever after a hard day at the office or just before you are getting ready to make love to your partner. What better way to get them to unwind. Now I am far from an expert but I so know that I am great at giving my partner massages, so I have put together a few techniques and suggestions that should help you along for your night to come. You will need a few things to aid you in your massage. I would recommend that you go out a purchase a nice scented massage oil. One that does not absorb into the skin too quickly. This will allow the oil to last longer while you are making your fingers do the magic. When you are choosing a scented oil be make sure that the scent of the oil is not too overwhelming it will take away the mood of what you are trying to accomplish if she smells like an air freshener half way through your massage. A nice aroma therapy candle would be perfect for such an occasion. Ok so now that you have the tools that you will need no you will have to make sure that the atmosphere is just perfect. Again as mention above aromatherapy can be the perfect tool in accomplishing this. If aroma therapy is not your thing then you might want to give incense a try. This will as well help you create a most relaxing atmosphere. Now its time to let your fingers do the magic. With your partner lying on her back you will want to make sure that she is in a comfortable position. Now smooth some oil in your hands before you put it onto her back. Putting oil on her back with it not at the right temperature make make her jump or be startled and take her out of that relaxed state that you have worked to accomplish. No gently smooth the oil all over her entire back in smooth wide stokes, with the flat part of your hand. Please be careful you do not want to kneed her body to roughly because you may do more harm then good. And she does not want to feel like she is bread getting ready to be baked. The key to this is to run her slowly and deeply while continuing to have that sensual touch. Make sure that you are taking the time to rub her in the way that makes her feel like you are willing to devote all the time in the world on her. Working your way from the back of her neck to her shoulders be careful not to "squeeze" her neck because again you may do more harm then good. be soft and gentle. You want to use a touch that will in a sense "tease her" and make her senses heightened though your touch. Stretch out her arms and massage her biceps lightly with your fingertips. Work the back on either side of the spinal cord, but never push deeply on the spine itself. Use upward strokes laterally along the spine until you reach her tailbone. Feel free to tease the area around the base of the spine because it contains many sensitive nerve endings. After made some magic on her back and arms, work your way down to her legs, especially her inner thighs because they are incredibly sensitive. Her legs should be given special care. You don't have to be as cautious as with her back, but still remain gentle. Rub her legs one section at a time, starting at her thighs, moving to her calves and finally ending at her feet. Don't stay on the feet too long or she'll get too relaxed and sleepy. Now while you're rubbing,
lean over and let your chest rub against her back ever so slightly. Let
other parts of your body rub up against hers while in the midst of your
massage. From time to time, exhale slowly along her body and when you're
about to come to a close, nibble on her ear. By the time you're done rubbing
her body down, she'll have much more than just rubbing on her mind. |
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