How To Test Honesty In Your Partner

You can test your partner's honesty in many ways.  Concerned he or she is cheating on you?  Do they spend too much time chatting in internet chat rooms?  How do they spend their time while you're not there?  If you have trouble answering this you are not alone.

My first and most sincere recommendation is to download the following software program and find out who they are chatting with on-line, what is in their email messages, and even obtain their secret passwords.  Cheaters use the internet to hide their indiscretions, thinking they can hide behind a series of passwords, and hidden identities.  You need to tie into this ultimate source of pure honest first hand information.

For some reason, the internet is the method of choice for cheaters to communicate.  Maybe it is because the internet makes it makes it easy to use a fictitious name, and to cheat in a relatively anonymous environment.

If they do not use the internet, then it will be much trickier to ascertain his or her honesty...

Some tips on how to determine your partner's honesty...

Liars will forget details about lies they have told.  You can easily check these details a week later.  For instance, your spouse is 2 hours late coming home from work.  You ask, "why the delay?".  They say, "Had to meet with the boss after work".  You say "oh, was there a problem?".  They give some petty details that may be a lie, something like "Just a sales review, numbers are down."  Now, if this is a lie, they will likely forget within a week and a half, so you drop the subject for a couple weeks.... You then say, "remember when you stayed late at work a couple weeks ago, .... what was that about again.  If they tell you they had to plan the Christmas party, you know they aren't being truthful.  If they take a long time to think of the answer, then the same is true, you have reason to doubt their honesty.  You will easily be able to tell the difference between them...

A.  recalling their true meeting that actually happened

and...

B.  trying to recall what lies they told you

You may need to tweak the time period you wait, as some people are "sharper" than others.  You can also watch for other signs that you should doubt their honesty... like...

1. if they won't look directly at you as they tell their story, (shifty eyed)
    

2. they quickly change the subject and offer no more details than what you directly ask.
    

3. a shake to their voice
    

4. breaking out in a sweat, or turning red

Good luck, and I honesty hope you find that your partner is truly open and honest !

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