Sometimes it may seem as if males and females are talking in different languages. So the saying goes "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". There are gender differences in communication. Because males and females are socialized differently, they often learn to communicate differently. This does not mean that all females communicate one way and all males communicate another. However, as you and I know that when we communicate as couples the differences do exist. One way that we as couples can look at this and evaluate this is that men and women have different goals when they communicate.
Women often use communication to get closer to others,
while Men tend to use communication to get across information and gain
control. When this occurs it can be difficult for men and women to
communicate effectively. But it’s important to remember that everyone is
different, and broad generalizations do not always hold. If you and your
partner have different communication styles, try to learn from each other so you
both can broaden your communication skills.
Growing and learning as a couple with make you stronger and
leave you both feeling fulfilled. Setting goals together and achieving
them will bring you closer as a couple. We sometimes forget that a
relationship is often compared to a full time job, and in a way that is
true. If you keep working as hard at your relationship as you do at work
everything will fall into place. They say that the only thing that can let
you down are your own expectations. So set reachable goals together and
put what you both know together as a couple and reach for the top.
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